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			<title>Legal Issues - ATTORNEYS WILL RESPOND | Erin, you did not ANSWER my question!</title>
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							<description><![CDATA[I posted earlier about the bill for orthodontic expenses.  Perhaps I was not clear.  Here's the deal.  The court ordered me responsible for 50% of uninsured medical, dental, and ORTHODONTIC expenses.  The income disparity is huge...to the tune of over 400,000 per year to 67,000 per year, but that is neither here nor there.<br /><br />The question is..............the ex signed the consent form for billing payments at the orthodontist office........that HE is the responsible party!!!!!!!  I signed NOTHING!!!!!!!  In THAT regard, since he signed that HE is the RESPONSIBLE PARTY, IS THAT NOT A LEGAL OBLIGATION!!!!!!!??????   Seems the only way the orthodontic office could come after me would be through a COURT ORDER!  HE SIGNED THE LEGAL RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE PAYMENTS!!!!!!!<hr />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[I posted earlier about the bill for orthodontic expenses.  Perhaps I was not clear.  Here's the deal.  The court ordered me responsible for 50% of uninsured medical, dental, and ORTHODONTIC expenses.  The income disparity is huge...to the tune of over 400,000 per year to 67,000 per year, but that is neither here nor there.<br /><br />The question is..............the ex signed the consent form for billing payments at the orthodontist office........that HE is the responsible party!!!!!!!  I signed NOTHING!!!!!!!  In THAT regard, since he signed that HE is the RESPONSIBLE PARTY, IS THAT NOT A LEGAL OBLIGATION!!!!!!!??????   Seems the only way the orthodontic office could come after me would be through a COURT ORDER!  HE SIGNED THE LEGAL RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE PAYMENTS!!!!!!!<hr /><div class="feedflare">
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			<title>Legal Issues - ATTORNEYS WILL RESPOND | opinion on AA and/or CC</title>
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							<description><![CDATA[If prior to separation, husband has numerous phone calls with another person (not spouse), I understand that AA can be filed. This other person is out of state, and the husband and person have never met in person. The calls went on for about 3 months prior to separation. Other factors actually influenced the separation, not the phone calls. (this occurred 3 months before Bill1110 passed)<br /><br />Your opinion please...the marriage was unhappy - meaning, a documented Separation agreement was drawn up by an attorney 1 year before the actual separation. It was not signed, but would you think that the evidence of an existing separation document would serve as evidence of an unhappy marriage? This in addition to sleeping in separate bedrooms for several years and several years of posts on a support website by husband as to the situation?<br /><br />thanks...C<hr />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[If prior to separation, husband has numerous phone calls with another person (not spouse), I understand that AA can be filed. This other person is out of state, and the husband and person have never met in person. The calls went on for about 3 months prior to separation. Other factors actually influenced the separation, not the phone calls. (this occurred 3 months before Bill1110 passed)<br /><br />Your opinion please...the marriage was unhappy - meaning, a documented Separation agreement was drawn up by an attorney 1 year before the actual separation. It was not signed, but would you think that the evidence of an existing separation document would serve as evidence of an unhappy marriage? This in addition to sleeping in separate bedrooms for several years and several years of posts on a support website by husband as to the situation?<br /><br />thanks...C<hr /><div class="feedflare">
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			<title>Legal Issues - ATTORNEYS WILL RESPOND | what breaks a separation agreement</title>
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							<description><![CDATA[Could someone advise me on what would break a separation agreement? I know mutual agreement on destroying the document itself would, moving back into the home (how long would you have to be in the home for the separation agreement to be considered null and void) Does the act of sexual intercourse break the agreement if the couple are not living together? thanks...<hr />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[Could someone advise me on what would break a separation agreement? I know mutual agreement on destroying the document itself would, moving back into the home (how long would you have to be in the home for the separation agreement to be considered null and void) Does the act of sexual intercourse break the agreement if the couple are not living together? thanks...<hr /><div class="feedflare">
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			<title>Legal Issues - ATTORNEYS WILL RESPOND | cross dresser</title>
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							<description><![CDATA[I have been married for over 20 years.  During that time my husband and I had long periods without physical inimate relations.  I suspected that he may be gay.  I had an affair over a four year period and during that time discovered evidence of his cross dressing, incdications of homosexual activity (but not confirmed0 and journal entries about homosexual fantisies.  About a year ago I told him about the affair and he confirmed that he had been cross dressing for years. <br /><br />After six months I completely terminated my relationship and my husband has been in counseling for cross dressing.  I am a dependant spouse and have been working to increase my income.  I would like to divorce him, but he threatens alienation of affection and says he will not pay me alimony.  He is emotionally unpredictable.<br /><br />Do I have a chance of alimony and does the third party need to be concended about alienation or criminal conversation?  I imagine that if this went to trial, my defense would be his cross dressing and implied homo sexual activity.  He may not want this information presented in public.  We live in NC<br />What do you think?<hr />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[I have been married for over 20 years.  During that time my husband and I had long periods without physical inimate relations.  I suspected that he may be gay.  I had an affair over a four year period and during that time discovered evidence of his cross dressing, incdications of homosexual activity (but not confirmed0 and journal entries about homosexual fantisies.  About a year ago I told him about the affair and he confirmed that he had been cross dressing for years. <br /><br />After six months I completely terminated my relationship and my husband has been in counseling for cross dressing.  I am a dependant spouse and have been working to increase my income.  I would like to divorce him, but he threatens alienation of affection and says he will not pay me alimony.  He is emotionally unpredictable.<br /><br />Do I have a chance of alimony and does the third party need to be concended about alienation or criminal conversation?  I imagine that if this went to trial, my defense would be his cross dressing and implied homo sexual activity.  He may not want this information presented in public.  We live in NC<br />What do you think?<hr /><div class="feedflare">
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			<title>Legal Issues - ATTORNEYS WILL RESPOND | QDRO question</title>
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							<description><![CDATA[Do you have to file a claim for equitable distribution to do the QDRO, or can they just use your signed and notarized SA?<hr />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[Do you have to file a claim for equitable distribution to do the QDRO, or can they just use your signed and notarized SA?<hr /><div class="feedflare">
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			<title>Legal Issues - ATTORNEYS WILL RESPOND | question about getting SA notarized</title>
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							<description><![CDATA[My stbx is working in TN Monday - Friday.  Does the notary on the SA need to be in NC if we are residents of NC?  Or can he just find someone in TN to notarize?<hr />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[My stbx is working in TN Monday - Friday.  Does the notary on the SA need to be in NC if we are residents of NC?  Or can he just find someone in TN to notarize?<hr /><div class="feedflare">
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			<title>Legal Issues - ATTORNEYS WILL RESPOND | alimony</title>
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							<description><![CDATA[what protection would one have and how would one get it . if  your x does not pay alimony as stated in the SA. what are the choices one has and when<hr />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[what protection would one have and how would one get it . if  your x does not pay alimony as stated in the SA. what are the choices one has and when<hr /><div class="feedflare">
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			<title>Legal Issues - ATTORNEYS WILL RESPOND | DIY Divorce question</title>
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							<description><![CDATA[My soon-to-be ex and I are going the DIY route, and our year of separation is almost up. We have a notarized separation agreement and all issues have been resolved. The only thing left to do is file and have it pronounced legally complete. <br /><br />I was printing off forms and getting everything ready, and got a little confused - do I need to have him served PRIOR to filing? And if so, can I have him served before the year is up, so that I can file on that date?<br /><br />thank you!<hr />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[My soon-to-be ex and I are going the DIY route, and our year of separation is almost up. We have a notarized separation agreement and all issues have been resolved. The only thing left to do is file and have it pronounced legally complete. <br /><br />I was printing off forms and getting everything ready, and got a little confused - do I need to have him served PRIOR to filing? And if so, can I have him served before the year is up, so that I can file on that date?<br /><br />thank you!<hr /><div class="feedflare">
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			<title>Legal Issues - ATTORNEYS WILL RESPOND | Re: Nothing settled legally in separation</title>
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							<description><![CDATA[If you are living separate and apart you are separated in the eyes of the law. If your husband trying to force you to switch the utilities into your name, it may be because he no longer intends on paying them. I suggest you visit a lawyer and plan on working out a formal agreement with respect to alimony prior to creating any financial responsibilities in your own name.<hr />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[If you are living separate and apart you are separated in the eyes of the law. If your husband trying to force you to switch the utilities into your name, it may be because he no longer intends on paying them. I suggest you visit a lawyer and plan on working out a formal agreement with respect to alimony prior to creating any financial responsibilities in your own name.<hr /><div class="feedflare">
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			<title>Legal Issues - ATTORNEYS WILL RESPOND | Re: Statutory Rape</title>
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							<description><![CDATA[I am not sure that would help your case, or even if you can still press charges. You would need to speak to the DA’s office in order to discern if you have a case at this point.<hr />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[I am not sure that would help your case, or even if you can still press charges. You would need to speak to the DA’s office in order to discern if you have a case at this point.<hr /><div class="feedflare">
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